Supporting A Loved One Struggling With Addiction

God created us to live in relationship with others and it is a beautiful thing. That is, until you discover someone you love has an addiction. The pain of watching a loved one tormented by addiction, and the impact of that stronghold on your relationship, can be agonizing.

Unconditional Love

Your loved one is made in the image of God and, therefore, has infinite worth, regardless of their behavior. Addiction does not define a person. No one asks to be an addict. “Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.” (I Peter 4:8)

Take Action: Speak lovingly when addressing the addicted individual and sharing your concerns or needs.

Not Unconditional Relationship

Many people erroneously think that unconditional love means there are no consequences for breaches of trust and destructive behavior. The best thing you can do is to practice good self-care and determine what parameters you need when relating to this individual.

Take Action: Set healthy boundaries with appropriate consequences that are designed to keep you physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually safe.

Hope

The road of recovery from addiction is long and hard. Words of hope and encouragement can be like a breath of fresh life. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him.” (Romans 15:13)

Take Action: Celebrate the small victories and remind your loved one that, with God, all things are possible.

Support

It can be a lonely road for an addict and their loved ones. But it doesn’t have to be. Find a safe person with whom you can share your struggles.

Take Action: Join a support group and build your support network.