Marriage In Crisis

Most couples experience conflict and other struggles at some point in their marriage. These issues are normal, though you may feel all alone. The apostle Paul told the church of Corinth (1 Corinthians 7:28) that those who marry will have trouble! But, we also know that marriage is a blessing.

Work Towards Reconciliation.

There are no perfect marriages because we are all imperfect people. To make a marriage work, you must be willing to forgive your spouse for what angers or hurts you. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32

Resolve the Argument, Don’t Try to Win it.

To have a strong and happy marriage, it’s important to change this mindset. Your spouse is not your opponent. When experiencing conflict, look at your spouse as your teammate, and your marriage as the prize.

Understand Your Spouse’s Feelings.

When experiencing conflict with your partner, try to listen to them and truly understand their feelings. Developing a great understanding of each other can lead to deeper intimacy and relational growth. James 1:19 says, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”

Counseling is the First Line of Defense, Not a Last-Ditch Effort.

On average, couples endure six years of being unhappy before seeking help from a marriage counselor. Marital counseling is more effective for people when they seek help once problems start to arise. Your marriage is important, so don’t put off seeking professional help.