God's Design For Marriage

God’s design for marriage is that it be a unique union between a man and a woman in a covenant for life. In the New Testament, marriage is used as an illustration of Christ and His relationship with His followers, the Church. As the designer, God is the only One qualified to give us instructions on how to have a successful marriage.

God is Your Foundation

The success of any structure depends on the foundation. When God is the foundation, the center on which your marriage is built, you will be able to weather any storm. “Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it” (Psalm 127:1a).

Take Action: Pray with each other every night before you go to bed to help keep your focus on God as your foundation.

Love is an Action

A godly marriage doesn’t give love on an “if – then” basis, and it doesn’t base love on feelings alone. The love we’re to show our spouse is to be reflective of the love God shows us every single day.

Take Action: Schedule a weekly date night to keep you and your spouse connected.

Forgiveness is Expressed

Forgiveness plays such a huge role in marriage. If not dealt with, bitterness, resentment, and dissension take root. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)

Take Action: Every night before bed, have alone time with your spouse so you can talk through your day and clear up any issues before bitterness sets in.

Support is Applied

If you’re looking for biblical instructions for marriage, find a church family! We were created to be in community with others!

Take Action: Join a connect group, serving team or connection class and build your support system.